frankly i dont think anything hurts more then slowly forgetting what someone you really love looks like.

lets be stress free for once

there are tons of ways to be stress free! don't overthink it. Just go in with the mindset that you are capable of taking all the stress away. One super effective method is doing something creative. Maybe you like to doodle in a notebook, try to write a quick story, or even try some digital art. getting your ideas out there can be a huge stress reliever. Another great is connecting with nature. Even if it's just stepping outside for a few minutes to feel the sun or listen to the birds, a little bit of fresh air can seriously reset your mood and can make you feel so much more calmer having that time to yourself. sometimes you maybe just need to zone out with your favorite show or a fun video game or literally anything. it’s a good way to give your brain a break from whatever’s been bugging you or weighing you down. The key is finding what works for you and giving yourself permission to take that time and calm your body.

your story doesn't end here. It's just the beginning.

do you ever feel stuck? do you ever feel like there’s nothing more to life and that there’s nothing else to try for? I often feel like that sometimes but trust me, your story doesn’t end here. there’s much more to life than you think there is. there’s more than just bad times but sometimes you have to get through the bad to enter the good. I know it may seem hard now. Trust me, I know, but you can’t revolve your life around all the negativity even if you think you can’t do that, you just have to look for the positive things. you have to look for the stuff that makes you happy and what doesn’t. block out everything that you know doesn’t do no good for you. Keep everything in your life that you know that can keep pushing you, keep you working, and go 10 times better. if it’s family, friends , or literally anything, hobbies activities , that could just keep your mind away from the negative stuff, you’re gonna be okay, your story doesn’t end here. Remember, you’re the author you write out how you want your life to go. you get to make the decision. you’re in charge nobody else is.

not feeling comfortable in your own body is a crime!!

Building up your self-confidence and feeling comfortable in your own body is a big deal, and honestly, it's something a lot of people struggle with. Focus on your own progress and what makes YOU happy, not what you think you should be based on someone else's life. Try to find things that make you feel good and empowered. Maybe it's a certain outfit that makes you feel amazing, or a hobby that you're really good at. When you do things that make you feel capable and strong, that feeling starts to spill over into other parts of your life. And remember, nobody's perfect. We all have things we'd like to change, but learning to accept and even embrace yourself is what truly makes you shine. It's all about being kind to yourself and recognizing that you're pretty freaking awesome just the way you are.

no need to be ashamed of yourself btw

It's super important to remember that being yourself is literally the coolest thing you can do. Sometimes it feels like everyone else has it all figured out, or that you need to act a certain way to fit in, but that's not true. You're awesome just the way you are. Don't let anyone make you feel like you need to change who you are to be liked. Stop comparing yourself to others. Everyone's on their own journey and living their own story, and what you see on social media often isn't the full picture. Focus on what makes YOU happy and what YOU'RE good at. Also, surround yourself with people who lift you up and appreciate you for who you are, not who they want you to be. It takes time, but learning to love yourself is the best gift you can give yourself.

who can you be if you don't love yourself?

self love is super important because it's all about being happy with who you are, inside and out. It's not about being stuck up or thinking you're perfect, but more about really accepting all the parts of yourself such as the good bits and the not so good bits. When you practice self love, it means you're actually taking care of yourself, like making sure you get enough rest or saying no to things that stress you out. It also means treating yourself with kindness and understanding, just like you would with your best friend or any loved one. Having this kind of self love helps you deal with certain situations and makes you feel more confident in who you are. It’s like building a strong base for yourself so you can feel good no matter what. You don't need to have that feeling to please everyone else. You need to feel confident in yourself to be able to take care and put yourself first.

embrace your Inner sparkle: how to shine authentically

Think of yourself as a unique person with special qualities that only you have. sometimes, we try too hard to be like everyone else or hide what makes us special because we feel unsure. But the best way to be is simply to be yourself, letting your true personality show. When you accept what makes you unique and share that with the world, you'll naturally stand out and form genuine connections with others. Seriously, you're totally unique. You've got your own vibe, your own thoughts, and your own cool stuff that no one else really has. Sometimes it feels like you have to be like everyone else, or you might even try to hide the things that make you special because you're not totally sure about them. But honestly, the best thing you can do is just be yourself. Let your real personality come out. When you're cool with what makes you, "you", and you actually show that to people, you'll naturally stand out. And that's how you make real friends and connections that actually matter.

your okay

 If you ever feel like your not okay I promise you, you are. There is so much more to life than just sitting around claiming your not okay. Whatever your going through, it's going to be okay. You just have to make it okay. You have to see through lines and feel that peace. You have to have the self confidence to build yourself back up. You have to remember to look for the light when your lost in the darkness. You saying "I'm not okay" will just keep making yourself believe that. You have to put that brave face back on and be show your more then what you believe. Your capable of always being okay. Don't let the little things get to you. Don't be so weak. Hear what others are saying about you , but don't let that define you. You get to define yourself. You can present your self the way you want to be presented. Nobody else can do that for you. People don't make up the story you tell. Your the author, show your true colors and tell your story the way you want it to be told.

"Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together" - Marilyn Monroe

your a freaking queen

let me tell you something babe. your an literal queen. you own this world. this is YOUR world and everyone is just simply living in it. You are the best version of yourself you could ever be. Your someone who's worth something. Wait not just something but literally EVERYTHING. you make the decisions that you want. nobody else dictates your life. forget about the negative nancy's your a positive polly. live your life to the freaking fullest. your the baddest. if anyone can rule the world its you. you rule your own world and you call every shot in your life babes. don't ever let a nobody walk all over you and try to enter your world and take over. your so much better than everyone thinks you are. I promise you , you are up there , trust. you need to make sure everyone else stays down. You are that queen. Don't forget babes everyone is just your fan, they got nothing on you :) 

keep your calm.

Keeping your calm is very important. Take your time to breathe. Slow. In and out. Escape reality and be you. Light those candles, put those headphones on, take that book out, or sit outside and get a glimpse of the fresh air. It's only you babes. You must be able to do what's right for you to make you feel relaxed and sane. You got your own back. Don't rely on others when you have yourself. You just need to have the confidence to be you. For an example meditating, going on walks , running, and all of the above can make a difference. Anything you can do to just let it all out and cleanse your brain can help. It benefits you because it helps you maintain your whimsy and maintain your peace. It's you and only you. Nothing nor nobody can stop you from being yourself. Listening to music or a playlist of meditation music can calm you down so you can think and feel at peace. Or even listening to any type music that keeps your in shape and can help you keep your composure , it can help. You got this! I'm right behind you! 

Tip!: If you have apple music i have a mediation 

playlist of a bunch of calming music with barely any lyrics to relax you!

+ a bunch of other music types too💗 @whimsysparkles 

                                                                                   

get that alone time!

A lot of people see being alone as a bad thing or something they fear, but i promise its not something you shouldn't want. Sometimes i find myself being the best person i can while being alone. Having that time for yourself is usually what you need the most. Stop feeling like you have to put everyone before yourself. You are your number 1 priority. Take time for yourself to clean, think ,write , listen to music , etc. Doing stuff to take your mind off of all that stress really helps. You can't live a whimsy life when all your doing is putting others before you and never getting that time to be alone and feel at peace. 

Fun Fact: What i do for myself is either do self care days

and or writing stories! It keeps me organized and feel more efficient with myself!